Okay, so you considered a boudoir photoshoot experience. You went online, typed in best boudoir photographer in Perth and even filled out a form for more information and then you started to talk yourself out of it. This happens so many times and there are many reasons why the initial excitement of having a photoshoot wears off and you’re left with nothing but self-doubt.
Here are 5 main reasons why women talk themselves out of having a boudoir experience…and why you should not do the same.
1. Having to lose weight first
Feeling like you need to lose weight prior to a photo shoot is more a case of it off because of nerves. There is nothing wrong with how you look and my job is to showcase just how beautiful, sexy and empowered you can be. Sure, you can still try and lose weight anyway, if that’s what you want. However, it’s more important to embrace who you are now and improve your self-confidence rather than the number on the scale.
2. Not being able to afford it.
This is another big one and here’s why. Most people, especially women wouldn’t think twice about spending money on their partner, parents, family or kids. When it comes to spending it on themselves, the guilt kicks in. Think about it though; when was the last time you splashed out on yourself? I’m not talking about a night out with the girls, but a proper luxurious, experience that you can look back at in years time and still hold fond memories?
I truly believe that every women deserves the gift of a boudoir photo shoot (and yes I am biased) and that’s why I have a range of payment options and plans {hyperlinked) to help make the shoot affordable for you.
3. Don’t know how to pose!
Luckily for you, you don’t need to know how to pose for boudoir photography. That’s my job! I will show you exactly how to pose, where to stand, what to do with your hands, how to best angle your body and everything in between. An experienced boudoir photographer takes on everything from styling to staging. All you need to do is show up!
4. Have nothing to wear.
Well how many of us have looked in our wardrobe, thrown our hands in the air and declared “ I have nothing to wear!” I don’t have that problem however, because I have a well stocked studio wardrobe you can have access to which includes stunning lingerie, props and I have even done an entire session with just bed sheets.
5. Don’t have the confidence
This is really the biggest reason that most probably underpins all the other reasons we tell ourselves not to do this. If you do not have the confidence, than this will give it to you in spades. No one ever comes into their session feeling like they’ve got this, but everyone leaves their session feeling like a million dollars. I’ll show you the photos as I go along and once you see how stunning you look and how much fun you’re having, the nerves, awkwardness and lack of confidence will melt away.
Okay so I have given you the reasons why women talk themselves out of a boudoir experience and tried to reassure you that a boudoir experience is the best thing you could do for yourself.
However, even I will admit that there is one reason that you shouldn’t book yourself in for a boudoir photoshoot. If you do not want to see yourself in a new light, rather not gain a huge boost in confidence, or feel empowered, then fair enough. Maybe the shoot isn’t for you (but i still think you should do it anyway 😉
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